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Posted By: Gamerdating Team - February 14, 2015

Hello, Welcome to our first version of GamerDating, we have loads of updates, changes and new features to add as we progress.  We will be fixing and updating any bugs, issues and features daily. During your time if you encounter any bugs, please provide as much information as possible with screenshots. Every bug you report which leads to a fix you can earn free membership and time on your account because we know communities grow

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Subscription Rewards

Posted By: Gamerdating Team - February 14, 2015

Online dating can often be a long, daunting quest and we want to reward you for your valor. We are gamers, we LOVE games so we figured we could offer games for free in our paid subscriptions. This can do two things: Share and offer our favorite games Support and promote indie games, devs and spread beta access Regrettably the majority of offered games are for the PC, due to the nature of online keys.  We are always looking fo

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Albion Online - We came, claimed and conquered.

Posted By: Alexander Brown - February 14, 2015

We came. We claimed. We conquered. Albion Online is a Free-to-Play game in its alpha-testing stage which offers a cross-platform sandbox MMO on Windows, Mac, Linux, Android and iOS. Think of it as a living world with no NPC vendors, no questlines and no NPCs to report to. Instead you, your guild and your friends decide who owns what: it is an entirely player-driven economy with full-loot hardcore PvP. Towns, buildings and regions can all be co

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Mortal Kombat X will take more realistic approach to female form

Posted By: Gamerdating Team - February 14, 2015

Female characters in Mortal Kombat X will be more realistically proportioned than in previous games.   "The mantra for this game has always been realism, heading towards a more realistic look," production manager Spiro Anagnostakos said, as reported by GameSpot. "So the same thing applies to the proportions where we try to bring things back in per se to where they should be." It is nice to see some positive actio

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Apple Promoting “Great Games with No In-App Purchases” on App Store Front Page

Posted By: Gamerdating Team - February 14, 2015

Apple has started promoting games that don't have any In-App Purchases on the front page of the App Store. Currently featured in the UK App Store, the section is called 'Pay Once & Play' and it showcases “great games” that don't require users to pay for extra content through IAPs.   It’s been a long time coming for Apps to provide the old fashion, and simple “here is a game, now play it&rdquo

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Caribbean RPG Release Date!

Posted By: Gamerdating Team - February 14, 2015

‘Caribbean!’ is going to be released on February 20th 2015.   Here’s what’s going into the release version: Naval battles — significantly changed based on players’ feedback. Boarding fights. Brand new economy and production system. New ranking system. Completely reworked quest model. Field artillery. Order and control system for armies in battl

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Paradox celebrates 3 years of Crusader Kings II, largest playtime on record is 10,500 hours.

Posted By: Gamerdating Team - February 14, 2015

The dedication to games is sometimes admirable, especially when it comes to Crusader Kings II.   While the average playtime of Crusader Kings II is 99 hours, with around 10,700 players scheming each month, someone has clocked an impressive 10,500 hours. The highest number of players in a month was 104,000.   Over 1.1 million units have sold since early 2012, with more than 2.5 million expansions bought. Check out the infogra

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CnC Tiberian Dawn - Community Power!

Posted By: Gamerdating Team - February 14, 2015

A small fan group has taken it upon themselves to gather over six hundred fan-created missions for CnC Tiberian Dawn. It's been a labor of love for the group and the mods run from 1996 all the way through this year's most current missions.   Once again we see the community and passion behind it driving forward to provide endless hours and support to one another. You just gotta love gamers! <3 Check out the massive Cn

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Unveiling of the Avatar

Posted By: Silja - June 14, 2018

How much can you and can’t you hide behind your avatar?

A few years ago, I walked into the room with my partner playing a video game (I think it was Tomb Raider actually now I come to think about it). The noise was deafening: grenades, machine-gun staccato, the groaning of the dying enemy. You know - fun. In the midst of all that glorious violence, a buff, yet slim female soldier was chopping and shooting her way in a dance of death through the screen of the game. My man was playing a female.

My first thought was “Yay, my guy is the ultimate feminist.” I mean, she was properly clothed and kicking serious ass. My second thought was “Is there such a thing as virtual cross-dressing?” and my last thought was “The female warrior totally represented my man… How interesting.” Even though she was clearly a woman, I could recognize parts of him in the avatar.

My guy educated me that playing a female is standard – everyone has a few characters they enjoy playing most, and not all of them represent the same gender. What’s the fun in a virtual world if you’re stuck being you all the time?

Interestingly enough, studies of avatars show that they actually do adequately represent their creators’ personality, even if the avatar isn’t human at all. This research shows that a person’s personality – as captured by The Big Five Personality Test – guides the design choices made by the player. The 5 personality traits act like a sliding scale.  You can score high or low on any of the 5 personality traits, each of them having their pro’s and con’s:

Openness

Being open to new experiences, art, sensitivity to beauty and having a vivid imagination.

Agreeableness

Reflecting the individual’s differences in concern with cooperation and social harmony.

Neuroticism

Neuroticism refers to the tendency to experience negative feelings.

Conscientiousness

Conscientiousness concerns the way in which we control, regulate, and direct our impulses.

Extraversion

Extraversion is marked by pronounced engagement with the external world.

The personality traits, as captured by the Big 5 Test, are represented in eyes, haircuts and colours, clothing choices of an avatar and much more. The participants in the study could point out who was extraverted and agreeable, for example, without ever meeting the creator of the avatar.

I guess it’s good that people can present parts of their nature through their avatar and still be enjoy the anonymity of a game with millions of players. Even while reading most books, you project parts of your personality on the main characters and that’s what makes the story even more compelling. So, when you meet an avatar in the game, you can look out for tell-tale signs of who that person could really be - and chances are you are right.

Pro-tip: if you’re looking to make friends, there are certain things you can look out for to make your avatar more approachable: a smiling avatar will make people want to be friends and other traits, like an oval face, brown hair or a sweater, were also more likely to make other players want to be friends than black, short hair (not cool: I have near black hair…). Apparently black hair, short hair, a hat and sunglasses are all no-nos.


And the good news is: if you want to dissolve into the anonymity of the multi-player world without sharing glimpses of your personality – just look out for what kind of an avatar look you would choose first – and then choose the opposite!

Happy hunting,

Silja

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