New Total War: Warhammer Trailer

Posted By: Melissa - September 04, 2015

Have you noticed how excited we are for Total War: Warhammer?   For the past 15 years, the Total War franchise has brought ancient and medieval war strategy into our homes, passing hours upon hours of my own awkward teen time and helping keep some of us out of too much trouble in college.  As if we weren’t already eagerly waiting for the next installment to come out - they combine with the prolific fantasy table top game t

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CoH2: The British Forces Released

Posted By: The GamerDating Team - September 03, 2015

The British Forces, the third expansion of RTS Company of Heroes 2, released today on Steam.  This adds 15 new units, 8 maps, 6 commanders and new abilities.  The British Army also has a radically different playing style than other forces as the gameplay was heavily influenced by the real life tactics employed by Churchill’s soldiers. As per normal with Relic’s releases, this is a standalone expansion.  Unlike o

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Want a Free Key to Mad Max?

Posted By: The GamerDating Team - September 02, 2015

In case you somehow missed it - Mad Max, the open-world action game based on the recent movie Mad Max: Fury Road was released yesterday.  We enjoyed the film and have been wondering how many days we might lose to Wasteland.  While our team has always loved the genre this game falls in, the addition of vehicular combat has had us eagerly waiting for our chance to drive through the desert looking for digital trouble. The reviews have b

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Star Wars Battlefront Beta Announced

Posted By: The GamerDating Team - September 01, 2015

Today on their blog, EA announced the Star Wars Battlefront Beta will be coming to PlayStation 4, Xbox One, and Origin for PC very soon.  From the Star Wars Battlefront news page:  Coming early October to PlayStation 4, Xbox One, and on Origin for PC, the Star Wars Battlefront Beta* is a technical test and will feature Walker Assault on Hoth, a 40-player multiplayer battle featuring Rebels and the Empire. Walker Assault will also g

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Uncharted 4 Gets a Release Date

Posted By: The GamerDating Team - August 31, 2015

According to the PlayStation Blog, Uncharted 4: A Thief’s End will be released March 18, 2016. There will be two physical versions of the game availabe:  The Special Edition          Uncharted 4: A Thief’s End Blu-ray disc         Collectible steelbook case designed by Alexander “That Kid Who Draws” Iaccarino       

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Games for a Good Cause

Posted By: Melissa - August 28, 2015

Today is the start of the HumbleBundle.com End of Summer Sale.  For anyone who has never heard of HumbleBundle, they put together a bundle every week that we can buy for whatever we are willing to donate to support charity. They have already donated millions of dollars to various nonprofits.  What is awesome about the end of summer sale is that there are over 1000 games on sale throughout the week for incredible discounts and ten p

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Witcher 3 Sells 6M Copies - Get It For Free With GamerDating

Posted By: The GamerDating Team - August 27, 2015

The Witcher 3, the open-world RPG by Polish developer CD Projekt RED, has sold over 6 million copies in their first six weeks of sales.  With scores of 10/10 from GameSpot and 9.3/10 from IGN, the game is sure to make it on most if not all of the lists of top games from 2015.  The developer released a financial statement covering the first six weeks of sales showing the company earned roughly 237 million PLN in profit for the first half

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YouTube Gaming Launched Today

Posted By: The GamerDating Team - August 26, 2015

Almost exactly a year after Google lost their bid to buy Twitch.tv they have launched Youtube Gaming.  The new app and website focus exclusively on gaming content with an emphasis on live streaming.  Until today, there were billions of hours of gaming focused material spread over hundreds of thousands of channels with only the search function and the recommendations of influencers and algorythms to help users find content,&nbs

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Pillars of Eternity: The White March Part 1 Released

Posted By: The GamerDating Team - August 25, 2015

The White March, an expansion for Pillars of Eternity was released today on Steam, GOG, and Origin.   Already there are positive reviews rolling in echoing the feelings of the original release reviews.  Developers Obsidian Entertainment, known best for their string of sequels such as Fallout: New Vegas and South Park: The Stick of Truth, added many new features and couple interesting characters.  From today’s obsidian.net for

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New Hearthstone Expansion Released

Posted By: The GamerDating Team - August 24, 2015

Hearthstone’s second expansion, The Grand Tournament, was released today.  This adds 132 new cards and a new keyword, Inspire, which rallies minions to your aid.  Check out the trailer - it is short and in true Blizzard fashion, doesn't take itself particularly seriously. This expansion brings a more lighthearted tone to the narrative of the game.  Previously, the tournaments were to find the best heroes to face t

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Splatoon Testfire Event Starts Today

Posted By: The GamerDating Team - August 21, 2015

Nintendo is doing another “Testfire” event which gives anyone with a WiiU a chance to try out Splatoon.  Starting today, August 21st, players in North America will be able to access Splatoon’s Turf War multiplayer mode for two hours at a specified time.  The European event is open for an hour at a time, with an additional hour of playtime spread over the week.  Here is the schedule: North America   

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L4D Heroes Land in Zombie Army Trilogy PC

Posted By: The GamerDating Team - August 20, 2015

The Left 4 Dead franchise’s eight survivors have been transported back to WWII to help out the heroes of Zombie Army Trilogy in a free PC version update now available on Steam.  This doubles the total of playable characters in Zombie Army Trilogy.  Jason Kingsley, CEO of Rebellion Developments, said in a press release: "We're delighted to be able to bring such iconic characters to Zombie Army Trilogy.  As t

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Planetary Annihilation: Titans Trailer

Posted By: The GamerDating Team - August 19, 2015

Uber Entertainment has released the next chapter in the Planetary Annihilation story, Planetary Annihilation: Titans as a free download for everyone who backed the original Kickstarter. Those who purchased the game will be able to buy Titals at a substantial discount. This stand alone expansion not only brings 5 huge Titan-class super units, it adds several new features that make Planetary Annihilation a better RTS. From the Uber Entertainment bl

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The Witcher 3: Wild Hunt Game Plus Out Today

Posted By: The GamerDating Team - August 18, 2015

The new Game Plus mode for The Witcher 3: Wild Hunt is now available for download on Xbox One and Playstation 4 in Europe and the US. This expansion, the last of the free DLC, lets players start a new play through after finishing the main plot of the game. Those starting their second round at level 30 or higher will retain their level, those below will be bumped up to 30. Players also receive a Clearing Potion to allow you to reset your skills. Y

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Tales from the Borderlands Episode 4 Starts Releasing Tomorrow

Posted By: GamerDating Team - August 17, 2015

Tales from the Borderlands Episode 4: Escape Plan Bravo will be released this week.  Telltale Games uploaded a trailer for it this morning. From the Telltell Games blog (Caution! Spoilers!): In this penultimate episode of the season, captured by Vallory and her goons, Rhys and Fiona are forced to continue the search for the Vault beacon - at gunpoint. The beacon is on the Hyperion moon base - Helios - while our heroes are on P

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Star Citizen Free-Fly Event Extended: Instructions

Posted By: GamerDating Team - August 14, 2015

Looking for an opportunity to see what Star Citizen is all about but not wanting to pledge?  They have extended their Free-Fly event until the 24th, giving users the chance to fight and race any of the playable ships in the Arena Commander module by following these directions (source): 1) Go to https://robertsspaceindustries.com/promotions/gamescomflyfree2015. 2) Choose 'Enlist Now' to create a new account. 3) Once the

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Super Mario Maker Official 'Let's Watch' Video

Posted By: Melissa - August 13, 2015

The official Nintendo YouTube channel released a 'Let's Play' video for Super Mario Maker and I feel like a little girl who has been handed the keys to her digital dream castle. Set for world wide release on September 11, 2015, Super Mario Maker gives players a blank canvas and all the familiar tools of the franchise.  Everything from goombas to koopa clown cars can be used to create levels that are playable by others all over

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Capcom Officially Announces Resident Evil 2 Remake

Posted By: GamerDating Team - August 12, 2015

Capcom announced that their classic survival horror game, Resident Evil 2, is being remade via their official YouTube channel.  The remake is being produced by Yoshiaki Hirabayashi, the producer behind this year's Resident Evil HD Remake and host to the announcement video.  There is no word on when it will release.  Formats for the game have not been announced, but we are expecting it to come to PlayStation 4, Xbox One and PC.

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Posted By: Gamerdating Team - August 12, 2015

Hey gamers! Have you been waiting for a “perfect time” to get 12 months membership? Love can be hard to find and there really isn’t a “right” time to start the search. We understand that the quest can be daunting in many ways so we’ve teamed up with the hoard at MadOrc to offer a special deal: For one week, only through MadOrc, you can get a 12 month membership on GamerDating for $19.95.  The

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CoD:Black Ops III Multiplayer Beta Access

Posted By: GamerDating Team - August 11, 2015

Anyone who has a PlayStation 4 and just can’t wait for the November 6th release of Call of Duty: Black Ops III needs to mark August 19th in their calendar.  The official Call of Duty YouTube channel released a trailer today revealing that those who preorder the game will begin to get access to the multiplayer beta in just a little over a week.  Beta access for Xbox One and PC players will open on August 26th.  

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Unveiling of the Avatar

Posted By: Silja - June 14, 2018

How much can you and can’t you hide behind your avatar?

A few years ago, I walked into the room with my partner playing a video game (I think it was Tomb Raider actually now I come to think about it). The noise was deafening: grenades, machine-gun staccato, the groaning of the dying enemy. You know - fun. In the midst of all that glorious violence, a buff, yet slim female soldier was chopping and shooting her way in a dance of death through the screen of the game. My man was playing a female.

My first thought was “Yay, my guy is the ultimate feminist.” I mean, she was properly clothed and kicking serious ass. My second thought was “Is there such a thing as virtual cross-dressing?” and my last thought was “The female warrior totally represented my man… How interesting.” Even though she was clearly a woman, I could recognize parts of him in the avatar.

My guy educated me that playing a female is standard – everyone has a few characters they enjoy playing most, and not all of them represent the same gender. What’s the fun in a virtual world if you’re stuck being you all the time?

Interestingly enough, studies of avatars show that they actually do adequately represent their creators’ personality, even if the avatar isn’t human at all. This research shows that a person’s personality – as captured by The Big Five Personality Test – guides the design choices made by the player. The 5 personality traits act like a sliding scale.  You can score high or low on any of the 5 personality traits, each of them having their pro’s and con’s:

Openness

Being open to new experiences, art, sensitivity to beauty and having a vivid imagination.

Agreeableness

Reflecting the individual’s differences in concern with cooperation and social harmony.

Neuroticism

Neuroticism refers to the tendency to experience negative feelings.

Conscientiousness

Conscientiousness concerns the way in which we control, regulate, and direct our impulses.

Extraversion

Extraversion is marked by pronounced engagement with the external world.

The personality traits, as captured by the Big 5 Test, are represented in eyes, haircuts and colours, clothing choices of an avatar and much more. The participants in the study could point out who was extraverted and agreeable, for example, without ever meeting the creator of the avatar.

I guess it’s good that people can present parts of their nature through their avatar and still be enjoy the anonymity of a game with millions of players. Even while reading most books, you project parts of your personality on the main characters and that’s what makes the story even more compelling. So, when you meet an avatar in the game, you can look out for tell-tale signs of who that person could really be - and chances are you are right.

Pro-tip: if you’re looking to make friends, there are certain things you can look out for to make your avatar more approachable: a smiling avatar will make people want to be friends and other traits, like an oval face, brown hair or a sweater, were also more likely to make other players want to be friends than black, short hair (not cool: I have near black hair…). Apparently black hair, short hair, a hat and sunglasses are all no-nos.


And the good news is: if you want to dissolve into the anonymity of the multi-player world without sharing glimpses of your personality – just look out for what kind of an avatar look you would choose first – and then choose the opposite!

Happy hunting,

Silja

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