The GamerDating 3.1 Wolf Patch is now live!

Posted By: GamerDating - March 31, 2016

We have been working hard at refining our search options and adding a new, improved matchmaking system. We have taken all your feedback, suggestions and support and plugged it straight into our latest update. Wolf Patch Updates: New user matching Improved profile fields for match  New Discovery Wall Updated user location Updated user search  Site optimisation The new Discovery Wall populates automatically with th

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The Devs Who go Above and Beyond - Stardust Galaxy Warriors

Posted By: GamerDating - March 17, 2016

I was browsing the internet when I came across a steam review, a review which had been crowned as the devs favourite review due to the high number of hours played. However the hours played were nothing to me, it was the message of the review, the story shared by the player which led to a huge wave of respect for the developers. See the review below: The devs read the players plight, who had issues with playing the game due to the lim

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Microsoft Wants PS4 and Xbox One to Connect Online

Posted By: GamerDating - March 14, 2016

Microsoft has announced it will natively support cross-platform play between Xbox One, Windows 10, and other "online multiplayer networks." The move effectively opens the Xbox Live platform so that it can accommodate players on Sony's PlayStation Network, among others.  So will we see finally the forbidden love between PS4 and XBone come together in perfect harmony, of well... Rocket League? Chris Charla, director of

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EVE Online Introduces Project Discovery, Real-World Science In Game

Posted By: GamerDating - March 10, 2016

EVE Online have announced their latest amazing feature. In EVE Online, you can now easily take part in Project Discovery, a unique mini-game that's quick, easy, and rewarding to play which helps contribute to real world science discovery. Project Discovery is run by the Sisters of EVE (SoE). Their project lead, Professor Lundberg, will recruit you and provide a basic tutorial on identifying patterns of protein distribution in h

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Overwatch Open Beta Coming to PC, PS4, and Xbox One

Posted By: GamerDating - March 08, 2016

Want a chance to check out Overwatch™ ahead of its May 24 launch? Form a team of friends and try out the team shooter in the Overwatch Open Beta. As a newly added bonus, if you pre-purchase or preorder Overwatch for any platform at www.buyoverwatch.com, you'll also get early access to the Open Beta for you and a friend from May 3–4. After that, everyone will have a chance to play free during an all-access Open Be

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Cities: Skylines Available with our 4 Month Subscription

Posted By: GamerDating - March 03, 2016

Have you played Cities: Skylines? Our team loves it and you can get a key for free, bundled with a gold subscription on GamerDating. Cities: Skylines is a modern take on the classic city simulation. The game introduces new game play elements to realize the thrill and hardships of creating and maintaining a real city whilst expanding on some well-established tropes of the city building experience. With a very positive score on Steam and 8.9 met

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The Division Had The Biggest Ever Beta For a New IP On PS4 And Xbox One

Posted By: GamerDating - February 23, 2016

Ubisoft has shared a final update for Tom Clancy’s The Division‘s open beta, as they tracked down the numbers for the final day. More than 6.4 million people took part in the open beta for The Division over the weekend, publisher Ubisoft has announced. The company adds that this makes it the largest beta for a new IP to date on PlayStation 4 and Xbox One. Agents successfully accomplished 17 million extra

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Ten Reasons Everyone Should Be and Date a Gamer

Posted By: Melissa - February 14, 2016

Happy Valentine's Day, gamers!  As per usual, there is a lot of talk going on about dating; why one is single, how to not be anymore, who should date who and why seem to be the topics most discussed. The entire thing can get a bit overwhelming when you’re just wanting to scroll through your social media without being reminded of your single-ness.  Before I found my Player 2, this “holiday” felt like it was fi

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Happy Valentine's Day! Five Days of Free Messaging For All

Posted By: The GamerDating Team - February 12, 2016

Hi Gamers! We are closing in on singles awareness day Valentine’s Day and the team was thinking this would be a perfect time for a free weekend. It is important to us that you find someone who will love you in game and out — we wouldn’t be here otherwise! With this weekend being so focused on romance, maybe it will be the perfect time for you to meet that perfect Player 2. Our community director, Melissa (add her to chat!)

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Just Announced Total War: Attila DLC Could Be Free

Posted By: The GamerDating Team - February 10, 2016

New DLC for Total War: Attila has been announced on Steam and there is a possibility it will be free. The Slavic Nations Culture pack adds three new playable factions to the game: The Anteans, Scavenians and Venedians. They will all be playable in Single or Multiplayer Campaign modes as well as Custom and Multiplayer battles. A hardy and mobile people, The Slavs range far and wide across the blasted Steppe to recolonise and bring new life

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Happy 25th Blizzard!

Posted By: The GamerDating Team - February 08, 2016

Today is the 25th anniversary of Blizzard Entertainment. On February 8th, 1991, Mike Morhaime, Frank Pearce, and Allen Adham, all recent graduates of UCLA, founded Silicon & Synapse - the precursor to our beloved Blizzard. Through extremely hard work and fantastic creativity, they grew a company that would change the currents of gaming and many of the players who enjoy them. It would be hard to miss how much we love Blizzard. We

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The Overwatch Closed Beta is Recruiting

Posted By: The GamerDating Team - February 05, 2016

This has been a great week for fans of first person shooters, and it looks like the energy is going to keep going for some. The Overwatch Closed Beta returns on February 9th after an extended break. If you were like us and didn’t get in to the first round of the beta, make sure you’ve opted in (you can do that here) as Blizzard says they are looking to recruit more players. They haven’t released full notes for this recent

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Doom Reboot Announces a Release Date and Collector's Edition

Posted By: The GamerDating Team - February 04, 2016

id Software and Bethesda announced via a gore and demon-packed YouTube video that the long awaited reboot of the Doom franchise will be released on May 13th.  It has been over twenty years since the first release ushered the FSP genre into the spotlight. Since then, community after community has popped up to share their stories of playing the game and mods of the original source code. There are a lot of game franchises that would like to

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Get Orcs Must Die! for Free With GamerDating

Posted By: The GamerDating Team - February 03, 2016

Have you played Orcs Must Die? Our team loves it and you can get a key for free, bundled with a silver subscription on GamerDating. For those of us who are avid followers of tower defense games, this was a breath of fresh air. Yes, there are fortresses to defend, and plenty of enemies to slay but the genre-atypical third person view gives the game a fast paced, action game feeling. While many in the genre have the player control entire armies,

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Time Warping FPS Superhot Release Date Announced

Posted By: The GamerDating Team - February 01, 2016

For all of you lovers of FPS, some great news today. Superhot, the IGF finalist shooter where “Time moves when you move,” will be released on Windows, Mac and Linux on February 25. There will also be an Xbox One version to follow “just a few weeks later.”  It isn’t often that we see real innovation in the FPS genre. Let’s face it, there is only so much a dev can do with the format. Characters, setting a

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Get In On Rocket League's Second Season, Free With GamerDating Subscription

Posted By: The GamerDating Team - January 29, 2016

Rocket League is starting a second season in February and if you haven’t given it a shot yet (pun intended), you can get the game with a Gold subscription bundle on GamerDating. We are all about games that you can play on a couch, next to your perfect Player 2, and this one has taken the sports game world by storm. In case you have been under a rock for the last seven months or so, Rocket League is the insane vehicle soccer (football, da

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GoG Launches Games In Development

Posted By: The GamerDating Team - January 28, 2016

GoG.com enters the early access market, promising “excellent hand-picked games, 14-day refund policy, always DRM-free.” The early access thing has been an interesting ride for gamers. Many of us are Steam users and have had more than a few intense conversations about the pros and cons of their services. Don’t get us wrong, we love Steam, however, their early access program has been marred by lack of careful curation and a few

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Evo 2016 Games Line Up Announced

Posted By: The GamerDating Team - January 27, 2016

Last night, in an announcement stream on the redbullesports Twitch channel, co-founder of Evo, Joey Cuellar announced the line up of this year’s event and discussed why each of the games was included.  The talk last night confirmed that Street Fighter 5 will be replacing Street Fighter IV - a move which has been hotly debated since the SF5’s release. Also joining the list for the first year is Pokken Tournament, the new Bandai

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Build Your XCOM Skills Before Sequel's Release - Free With Silver Bundle

Posted By: The GamerDating Team - January 26, 2016

With a sequel coming in less than two weeks, if you haven’t played XCOM: Enemy Unknown, now is a great time to brush up on your turn-based strategy skills. Better yet - you can get the game for free on GamerDating, bundled with a Silver subscription or a Gold subscription AND another silver game. (Might we suggest newly added BioShock Infinite?) Clearly, our team loves video games. We hail from all sectors of the gaming world; PC and con

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FNaF World Pulled From Steam

Posted By: The GamerDating Team - January 25, 2016

After a tumultuous five days, Scott Cawthon has removed Five Nights at Freddy’s World from Steam and GameJolt. The creator said in a message on Steam that while the overall response to the game is showing ‘very positive,’ gamers who regularly play RPGs were not particularly pleased and he “was not satisfied with the reviews and ratings it was getting.” For that reason, I've decided to remove the game fr

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Unveiling of the Avatar

Posted By: Silja - June 14, 2018

How much can you and can’t you hide behind your avatar?

A few years ago, I walked into the room with my partner playing a video game (I think it was Tomb Raider actually now I come to think about it). The noise was deafening: grenades, machine-gun staccato, the groaning of the dying enemy. You know - fun. In the midst of all that glorious violence, a buff, yet slim female soldier was chopping and shooting her way in a dance of death through the screen of the game. My man was playing a female.

My first thought was “Yay, my guy is the ultimate feminist.” I mean, she was properly clothed and kicking serious ass. My second thought was “Is there such a thing as virtual cross-dressing?” and my last thought was “The female warrior totally represented my man… How interesting.” Even though she was clearly a woman, I could recognize parts of him in the avatar.

My guy educated me that playing a female is standard – everyone has a few characters they enjoy playing most, and not all of them represent the same gender. What’s the fun in a virtual world if you’re stuck being you all the time?

Interestingly enough, studies of avatars show that they actually do adequately represent their creators’ personality, even if the avatar isn’t human at all. This research shows that a person’s personality – as captured by The Big Five Personality Test – guides the design choices made by the player. The 5 personality traits act like a sliding scale.  You can score high or low on any of the 5 personality traits, each of them having their pro’s and con’s:

Openness

Being open to new experiences, art, sensitivity to beauty and having a vivid imagination.

Agreeableness

Reflecting the individual’s differences in concern with cooperation and social harmony.

Neuroticism

Neuroticism refers to the tendency to experience negative feelings.

Conscientiousness

Conscientiousness concerns the way in which we control, regulate, and direct our impulses.

Extraversion

Extraversion is marked by pronounced engagement with the external world.

The personality traits, as captured by the Big 5 Test, are represented in eyes, haircuts and colours, clothing choices of an avatar and much more. The participants in the study could point out who was extraverted and agreeable, for example, without ever meeting the creator of the avatar.

I guess it’s good that people can present parts of their nature through their avatar and still be enjoy the anonymity of a game with millions of players. Even while reading most books, you project parts of your personality on the main characters and that’s what makes the story even more compelling. So, when you meet an avatar in the game, you can look out for tell-tale signs of who that person could really be - and chances are you are right.

Pro-tip: if you’re looking to make friends, there are certain things you can look out for to make your avatar more approachable: a smiling avatar will make people want to be friends and other traits, like an oval face, brown hair or a sweater, were also more likely to make other players want to be friends than black, short hair (not cool: I have near black hair…). Apparently black hair, short hair, a hat and sunglasses are all no-nos.


And the good news is: if you want to dissolve into the anonymity of the multi-player world without sharing glimpses of your personality – just look out for what kind of an avatar look you would choose first – and then choose the opposite!

Happy hunting,

Silja

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