“Press F to Kick Door” - Door Kickers: Action Squad Review

Posted By: Craig - May 24, 2019

Door Kickers: Action Squad is what I imagine life would be like as an actual SWAT officer, only with less respawns and not in 2D side scrolling pixel art.   I want to begin by prefacing that I adore 80s action movies, with the bullets flying, blood splattering and explosions…exploding. So you can understand why I relished the opportunity to review Door Kickers for the site. I watched the trailer and it ticked a lot of boxes for

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Be Grateful, Biatch! How gratitude will reprogram your brain.

Posted By: Silja - May 15, 2019

This morning when I lifted my feet out of my bed I immediately cringed at the cold seeping through the window that was cracked open. Raised in Southern California, I’m no friend of the cold, and instantly my mood went from neutral to Minus 2. Grumbling, I headed to the bathroom to discover my partner had used up the toothpaste and not replaced it. Mood drop to Minus 4. In the kitchen I was confronted with the fact that my smoothie ba

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GamerDating will be your Shield!

Posted By: Alex - May 10, 2019

GamerDating's launch is here and above all, we want you to be safe!   We will be your tank class while you take the role of hero, dps and healer as we take the blows from spam/fakes and bots.   When we made GamerDating one of our core missions was to ensure we had a safe, secure and real place for our users.   We didn't want to create a place for avatars to find other avatars, but real people, real gamers.  

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GamerDating LAUNCH and $50K Giveaway!

Posted By: Alex - May 02, 2019

GamerDating is OUT of BETA! After seven years in beta GamerDating.com, the world’s first dating site dedicated to gamers, finally and formally launches on desktop and mobile web! But the development doesn't stop here. We have matchmaking queues, new email systems, game matches, profile updates and, of course, all improvements based from feedback you all sent in <3 Just as we bundle games into our subscription sig

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GamerDating Launch update is live!

Posted By: Alex - April 29, 2019

Introducing GamerDating.com We're so happy you joined us for Beta and finally we're stepping into the light of release land, and wow there were A LOT OF YOU! Here's to our 130thousanth active user on release!   It's been a-long-time, and no one at GamerDating is going to pretend there hasn't been ups and downs with our project to change the nature of relationships in gaming, but this stuff doesn't happen o

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GamerDating Updates Preview - Advanced Matchmaking, emails & activity labels.

Posted By: GamerDating Team - April 22, 2019

Coming Soon - Advanced Matchmaking, Matchmaking emails and new activity labels. This month we intend to roll out our advanced matching making system. After feedback and user suggestions we are pleased to announce that we have nearly finished our improved system to bring you more opportunities to find your special Player 2. Each week we take your feedback, bug reports and suggestions and plug them into our roadmap.   FINDING YOU M

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Warcraft: Orcs and Humans & Warcraft 2 available on GOG

Posted By: Alex - March 29, 2019

Warcraft: Orcs and Humans & Warcraft 2 Battle.net Edition is now available as a bundle on GOG.com (an its DRM-free). As the upcoming 25th anniversary of Warcraft looms, the community murmurs and we see the real-time strategy classics that started it all, Warcraft: Orcs and Humans and Warcraft II Battle.net Edition, including both the original Tides of Darkness and the Beyond the Dark Portal expansion is now available, DRM-free over at GOG.

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>Observer_ Review

Posted By: Ryan - March 21, 2019

>observer_ is a cyberpunk marvel built on the little stories of its all too human cast. Told through the eyes of KPD officer Daniel Lazarski (voiced by none other than Rutger Hauer himself), >observer_ is a short horror game drenched in the atmosphere one would expect from the minds behind Layers of Fear. The 8 or so hours it took me to complete the main story (as well as some side cases) raised many questions concerning the nature of hu

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Back 4 Blood: Left 4 Dead Devs return with this spiritual successor

Posted By: GamerDating Team - March 18, 2019

Warner Bros. Interactive Entertainment and Turtle Rock Studios today announced Back 4 Blood, from the creators and development team behind Left 4 Dead. Back 4 Blood is designed from the ground-up as an original, premium title and marries the best of what made the co-op zombie shooter so successful with new features and state-of-the-art technology. And yes.... it has PVP! While actual juicy news is limited about Back 4 Blood with no images,

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Popularity killed our email server - Fixed!

Posted By: GamerDating Team - March 14, 2019

Sorry, we had to add this beautiful image from Halo, but we're just so excited about the MCC coming to Steam too! Consider this server report our tribute. Hopefully, we will have our revenge on the covenant for blowing the damn thing up (It wasn't them, we're just a little popular right now - this is great lol). Earlier today our email server clogged up and stopped sending out emails, confirmation emails, notifications and message

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Our March rewards for you

Posted By: GamerDating Team - March 13, 2019

BattleTech, Jurassic World Evolution, War for the Overworld and Company of Heroes 2  to name just a few. It's that time again gamers! Each week we add new games that are available with your subscription. With every first subscription you get to select a game, gift card or games to bundle with your premium access. This month we've added even more games, restocked some popular choices and added a collection of new games across b

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GamerDating Patch 25th February - Anti-Spam and Bot Tools and General Improvements

Posted By: GamerDating Team - February 25, 2019

Spammers, Bots lose with our new anti-spam system. Huge bug fixes roll out for QoL. So far in 2019 we have rolled out a few stealth bug fixes to address reported bugs, but overall we have been working on fighting the spammers and botters. Each week we take your feedback, bug reports and suggestions and plug them into our roadmap. In the last few months we've been in a full war with spammers, and you can read more about our spam war h

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Our February rewards for you

Posted By: GamerDating Team - February 20, 2019

Fallout 4, Post Scriptum, The Bard's Tale: Remastered and Resnarkled, >observer_ (OBSV) and Vampyr to name just a few. It's that time again gamers! Each week we add new games that are available with your subscription. With every first subscription you get to select a game, gift card or games to bundle with your premium access. This month we've added even more games, restocked some popular choices and added a collection of ne

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Mini Metro - Review

Posted By: Ricky - February 06, 2019

Mini Metro is billed as a strategy game and while there might be some strategy involved it plays more like a sometimes frantic puzzle game. With many game modes and a variety of maps this charmingly simple game will provide entertainment for your own train journeys. Visuals The first thing you’ll notice is that Mini Metro is graphically simple; a small pallet of flat colours and icons keep it crisp and clear. At times however the u

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Mages of Mystralia - Review

Posted By: Jennifer - February 01, 2019

Sassy spell books, grumpy mentors, and goblins galore. Welcome to Mystralia! Mages of Mystralia is a bright, colourful single-player adventure, with an engaging story, memorable characters and tricky puzzles that challenge the player to think creatively. Join Zia, a novice mage in a world where magic is outlawed, as she sets out on an epic quest to learn more about her gift and save Mystralia from the forces of evil.   Combining the ta

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Battlefleet Gothic: Armada 2 - Grim Dark Review

Posted By: Dan - January 26, 2019

As a twenty year fan of the Warhammer 40k universe, It was with great pleasure and excitement that I was recently offered the chance to write a review on the upcoming release of Battlefleet Gothic: Armada 2. Whilst I never had the pleasure of playing the tabletop version of Battlefleet Gothic, the upcoming PC game is, as expected set in the same rich, gritty dark and terrifying universe as the parent tabletop miniature wargame from which it evolv

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Book of Demons - Papercuts and Dungeon Runs - Review

Posted By: Lily - January 18, 2019

Book of Demons, Smarter than the Average ARPG Recently out of early access (December 13th). Book of demons is an interesting take on the hack and slash genre, where equipment, spells and abilities come in the form of upgradable cards that you find as treasure as you progress through the game. This mix of deck building, hack and slash and roguelike elements gives Book of Demons its unique selling point. The story sees yourself, a veteran ad

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Our January rewards for you

Posted By: GamerDating Team - January 14, 2019

ABZU, Bioshock Remastered, Frostpunk, Age of Empires II HD and a collection of Assassin's Creed games. It's that time again! Each week we add more new games that are available with your subscription. With every first subscription you get to select a game, gift cards or games to bundle with your premium access. This month we've added even more games, restocked some popular choices and added a collection of Assassin's Creed games

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BATALJ extends open beta till end of Jan!

Posted By: GamerDating Team - January 04, 2019

BATALJ is a fierce online turn-based action strategy game by Fall Damage Games, an online multiplayer one v one game with multiple factions where you select out your squad of units, in tiers with heroes and then play in a hex grid map akin to games like X-Com. We wanted to cover this and share the news of extended beta in case you missed it last year. It promises to have some great gameplay, if you can get over the 1v1 platform if offers. T

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We got interviewed by DatingAdvice.com - Review & Interview

Posted By: James - December 14, 2018

Woot! We had a great interview after a request from Chief Ed Hayley Matthews over at DatingNews.com a few weeks ago, and their full interview and review of GamerDating.com just dropped, despite our shy and retiring natures! (I can't spin that sorry...) They had some nice thing to say about us and some of their own experiences: "GamerDating is a game-changing dating site designed to connect hardcore gamers who are single and look

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Unveiling of the Avatar

Posted By: Silja - June 14, 2018

How much can you and can’t you hide behind your avatar?

A few years ago, I walked into the room with my partner playing a video game (I think it was Tomb Raider actually now I come to think about it). The noise was deafening: grenades, machine-gun staccato, the groaning of the dying enemy. You know - fun. In the midst of all that glorious violence, a buff, yet slim female soldier was chopping and shooting her way in a dance of death through the screen of the game. My man was playing a female.

My first thought was “Yay, my guy is the ultimate feminist.” I mean, she was properly clothed and kicking serious ass. My second thought was “Is there such a thing as virtual cross-dressing?” and my last thought was “The female warrior totally represented my man… How interesting.” Even though she was clearly a woman, I could recognize parts of him in the avatar.

My guy educated me that playing a female is standard – everyone has a few characters they enjoy playing most, and not all of them represent the same gender. What’s the fun in a virtual world if you’re stuck being you all the time?

Interestingly enough, studies of avatars show that they actually do adequately represent their creators’ personality, even if the avatar isn’t human at all. This research shows that a person’s personality – as captured by The Big Five Personality Test – guides the design choices made by the player. The 5 personality traits act like a sliding scale.  You can score high or low on any of the 5 personality traits, each of them having their pro’s and con’s:

Openness

Being open to new experiences, art, sensitivity to beauty and having a vivid imagination.

Agreeableness

Reflecting the individual’s differences in concern with cooperation and social harmony.

Neuroticism

Neuroticism refers to the tendency to experience negative feelings.

Conscientiousness

Conscientiousness concerns the way in which we control, regulate, and direct our impulses.

Extraversion

Extraversion is marked by pronounced engagement with the external world.

The personality traits, as captured by the Big 5 Test, are represented in eyes, haircuts and colours, clothing choices of an avatar and much more. The participants in the study could point out who was extraverted and agreeable, for example, without ever meeting the creator of the avatar.

I guess it’s good that people can present parts of their nature through their avatar and still be enjoy the anonymity of a game with millions of players. Even while reading most books, you project parts of your personality on the main characters and that’s what makes the story even more compelling. So, when you meet an avatar in the game, you can look out for tell-tale signs of who that person could really be - and chances are you are right.

Pro-tip: if you’re looking to make friends, there are certain things you can look out for to make your avatar more approachable: a smiling avatar will make people want to be friends and other traits, like an oval face, brown hair or a sweater, were also more likely to make other players want to be friends than black, short hair (not cool: I have near black hair…). Apparently black hair, short hair, a hat and sunglasses are all no-nos.


And the good news is: if you want to dissolve into the anonymity of the multi-player world without sharing glimpses of your personality – just look out for what kind of an avatar look you would choose first – and then choose the opposite!

Happy hunting,

Silja

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