Our September rewards for you

Posted By: GamerDating Team - September 12, 2018

Cuphead, Wolfenstein II: The New Colossus (uncut), Spellforce 3, and we've got Civilization 6 Each week we add more and more new games that are available with your subscription. With every first sign up you get to select a game or games to bundle in with you premium access. We offer 2 or 4 month subscriptions which allows you to read messages from free users, allow free users to read your messages and at the same time we chuck in a game

read more

GamerDating Patch September 6 - Easy Login and Views!

Posted By: GamerDating Team - September 06, 2018

GREETINGS PROGRAMS! (That's my classic Tron reference for the year lol) This update we have some much needed quality of life changes for you guys, particularly focusing around the need to tell you whos checking you out, and to get back into the site quickly and easily when this has occurred (No more boring login information and passwords required). We've added a quick way for you to log straight in via any of the links in our em

read more

Battlefield V Open Beta and Release Date

Posted By: GamerDating Team - September 04, 2018

The Battlefield V Beta has Started After their initial alphas and betas, EA DICE had a lot of feedback which led them to face facts - They needed more time. With new updates and fixes from the previous beta, the beta launched today will be giving us a new version to play with. Open Beta Details The Open Beta opens to the public on September 6 and runs until September 11. Pre-load starts on September 3. Want in early and get a full wee

read more

Our August rewards for you

Posted By: GamerDating Team - August 26, 2018

Icewind Dale (Enhanced Edition), Warhammer: Vermintide 2, Frostpunk and Titanfall 2 Each week we add more and more new games that are available with your subscription. With every first sign up you get to select a game or games to bundle in with you premium access. We offer 2 or 4 month subscriptions which allows you to read messages from free users, allow free users to read your messages and at the same time we chuck in a game to say "

read more

First Contact, or: The Horror of Being First to Reach Out

Posted By: Silja - August 21, 2018

First Contact Or: The Horror of Being First to Reach Out. It’s a day like any other, you are idly browsing through GamerDating when a profile catches your attention: a good-looking individual who plays the same games, has a funny yet smart blurb and lives in the same area as you? Ok, it’s on. Donkey Kong is not a good role model for starting relationships especially with budding princesses You find yourself smiling

read more

Fallout 76 Multiplayer "Let's Work with Others" Trailer

Posted By: GamerDating Team - August 15, 2018

Fallout 76 releases "Let’s Work with Others!" Video In typical hilarity Bethesda has released a new stylistic info video about Multiplayer, and while details still remain largely sparse, it does highlight multiplayer over solo play. We already know that "Fallout 76 is entirely online" - Todd Howard Moving from a solo player experience of story driven rpg, it is a big gamble so it is no surprise that they continu

read more

Call of Duty: Black Ops 4 Beta Dates and Information

Posted By: GamerDating Team - July 31, 2018

Black Ops 4 beta dates, access and beta rewards Call of Duty: Black Ops 4 is launching it's mulltiple beta's across all platforms. Initally the first beta will cover the standard multiplayer mode - featuring six maps, six game modes and ten Specialists. The first beta will kick off first on PS4 then rolling out to Xbox One and PC: Black Ops 4 PS4 dates: August 3rd to August 6th Black Ops 4 PS4 & Xbox One dates: August 10

read more

Fallout: Miami a fanmade Mod is coming soon!

Posted By: GamerDating Team - July 25, 2018

Fallout: Miami is an upcoming mod for Fallout 4. The unofficial mod has been led by Milan Brajkovic with a great cast of fans and volunteers. The game has been developed with the "Creator's Network" a community that supports mods and creations. The Sole Survivor journeys to the sunny South, following the promise of a well-paid job, but ends up embroiled in a conflict between various groups, some vying for power, others f

read more

GamerDating Patch July 19 - Icons, Clarity, UX and Messages!

Posted By: GamerDating Team - July 19, 2018

PATCH COMPLETE Harvesting Coolant Systems.... Reticulating splines....Update complete. This update we have released a huge list of minor UI and UX updates, all from your feedback! Thank you to everyone who continues to offer feedback, advice and ideas to help better our community and shared place to make it a better environment to find your special player 2. Incase you're wondering, what does messages mean? Basically we overhauled

read more

Mushroom Wars 2 Review for Nintendo Switch

Posted By: Alex - July 13, 2018

Mushroom Wars RTS on Switch Last week we got our hands on Mushroom Wars 2 for the Nintendo Switch. As one of the only RTS games on Switch we were excited to get our hands on the game and play. Mushroom Wars 2 has a beautiful art style with some fantastic mushroom-themed characters, pretty loading screens and lovely cut scenes of static images. The game was pulling my heart strings with the stylistically cute character imagery and supporting

read more

Emotional Intelligence and Gaming

Posted By: Silja - July 11, 2018

Emotional Intelligence – the Secret Formula of a Successful Relationship Emotions aren’t talked a lot about in game, it’s a toughy. Games are mostly competitive, but even co-op at times can become heated right? Ever wondered why some people react differently compared to others? How about why you were totally level headed in one situation, while your co-op partner lost it? Hopefully this short read will give you some insigh

read more

Warframe teases Codename: Railjack update

Posted By: Alex - July 09, 2018

The new Warframe update looks amazing! Warframe | Codename: Railjack is one of the latest updates that was teased about a year ago but now announced at TennoCon 2018 alongside the new open Landscape of Venus, coming in the Fortuna update later in 2018! The latest updated named "Fortuna" has had one specific update aside from the hoverboards and new open world, an update that has been turning heads. SPACE COMBAT. Warframe is

read more

Moonlighter Roadmap update, awesome little game

Posted By: GamerDating Team - July 05, 2018

Moonlighter is a clever mix of RPG story and rogue-like dungeon crawling. It has a very nice pixel art game and launched last month across Steam, GoG, PS4, Xbox, Switch and Humble Store. It follows a guy called Will, a shopkeeper who wants to be a hero. The game got my interest because of the unique approach to story mixed with the responsive feel of arcade like action (check out the trailer below). In the day you shopkeep like a go

read more

July rewards for you

Posted By: GamerDating Team - July 02, 2018

SuperHot, Northgard, Agony and Mass Effect Trilogy and more, available! As always each month we add more games available with any subscription. With every first sign up you get to select a game or games to bundle in with you premium access. We offer 2 or 4 month subscriptions which allow you to read messages from any users (paid or free), allows free users to read and respond to your messages and at the same time we toss in a game to say th

read more

Fallout 76 DLC, Multiplayer and C.A.M.P Information

Posted By: Alex - June 28, 2018

Fallout 76 has been met with an excited murmur of hope and fear. Will the game be good? Will it be plagued with microtranscations and horse armour? Will the multiplayer only vibe with no npcs work? Will it actually be a RPG? Slowly after the teases at E3 we've had a collection of videos and information coming out. DLC The new business model which Bethesda is adopting for Fallout 76 means that all DLC for the upcoming game will be fre

read more

GamerDating Updates - Messages, Email settings, views and more!

Posted By: Alex - June 22, 2018

WE DID THE THING! This latest update introduced a new range of improvements to ensure you all have the best experience. Message System Updated now allows premium users to message anyone, this stops penalising paid members and allows you to trust that when you send a message that user will see your sweet sweet words. Email system revamped so you won't get notified so much. We underestimated the eagerness of those special player 2

read more

Spam Wars 2018! (The death of the fake profile)

Posted By: James - June 18, 2018

1 2 3 4, I declare a Spam war! Hey gamers, this is an article to do a couple of things, first to tell you that everyone who's experiencing any spam right now, either from emails or fake profiles, we are on it! We've got 2 new updates coming out to address spammers and the multiple emails being sent to some users which is really annoying them. The first of which is being rolled out tomorrow which will stop the extreme level of spam e

read more

E3 2018 Highlights Monday and Tuesday

Posted By: GamerDating - June 14, 2018

We saw the Electronic Entertainment Expo aka E3 hit the gaming scene and its gooOOOoood. We've already covered some highlights of Saturday and Sunday. Now we checkout Monday and Tuesday. Monday, June 11th Monday kicked off with Square Enix showcase which kicked off instantly with little gumf and chatter and gave us some wonderful trailers such as the Dragon Quest 11: Echoes of an Elusive Age, Kingdom Hearts 3 which isset to come out in

read more

Unveiling of the Avatar

Posted By: Silja - June 14, 2018

How much can you and can’t you hide behind your avatar? A few years ago, I walked into the room with my partner playing a video game (I think it was Tomb Raider actually now I come to think about it). The noise was deafening: grenades, machine-gun staccato, the groaning of the dying enemy. You know - fun. In the midst of all that glorious violence, a buff, yet slim female soldier was chopping and shooting her way in a dance of death thro

read more

E3 2018 Highlights Saturday and Sunday

Posted By: GamerDating - June 12, 2018

Each year we see the Electronic Entertainment Expo aka E3 hit the gaming scene with announcements which dwarf gaming news across all channels, and for good reason. Lined up are announcements which bring cheers, excitement, huge hype and sometimes just a sprinkle of dissappointment. Saturday, June 9th The event got started with a conference by Electronic Arts (EA) which gave us a better Battlefield V Trailer, information about how Battle Roy

read more
1 2 ... 6 7 8 ... 25 26
GD
User
Password
Forgot your password?

Password Reset

We've sent you an email, please copy/paste the code we sent you to the password reset token box, then create a new password below it

Email
Help We'll send instructions to this email
Password
Help Enter code from email we sent you
Password
Help Enter your new password
Password
Help Confirm your new password

Unveiling of the Avatar

Posted By: Silja - June 14, 2018

How much can you and can’t you hide behind your avatar?

A few years ago, I walked into the room with my partner playing a video game (I think it was Tomb Raider actually now I come to think about it). The noise was deafening: grenades, machine-gun staccato, the groaning of the dying enemy. You know - fun. In the midst of all that glorious violence, a buff, yet slim female soldier was chopping and shooting her way in a dance of death through the screen of the game. My man was playing a female.

My first thought was “Yay, my guy is the ultimate feminist.” I mean, she was properly clothed and kicking serious ass. My second thought was “Is there such a thing as virtual cross-dressing?” and my last thought was “The female warrior totally represented my man… How interesting.” Even though she was clearly a woman, I could recognize parts of him in the avatar.

My guy educated me that playing a female is standard – everyone has a few characters they enjoy playing most, and not all of them represent the same gender. What’s the fun in a virtual world if you’re stuck being you all the time?

Interestingly enough, studies of avatars show that they actually do adequately represent their creators’ personality, even if the avatar isn’t human at all. This research shows that a person’s personality – as captured by The Big Five Personality Test – guides the design choices made by the player. The 5 personality traits act like a sliding scale.  You can score high or low on any of the 5 personality traits, each of them having their pro’s and con’s:

Openness

Being open to new experiences, art, sensitivity to beauty and having a vivid imagination.

Agreeableness

Reflecting the individual’s differences in concern with cooperation and social harmony.

Neuroticism

Neuroticism refers to the tendency to experience negative feelings.

Conscientiousness

Conscientiousness concerns the way in which we control, regulate, and direct our impulses.

Extraversion

Extraversion is marked by pronounced engagement with the external world.

The personality traits, as captured by the Big 5 Test, are represented in eyes, haircuts and colours, clothing choices of an avatar and much more. The participants in the study could point out who was extraverted and agreeable, for example, without ever meeting the creator of the avatar.

I guess it’s good that people can present parts of their nature through their avatar and still be enjoy the anonymity of a game with millions of players. Even while reading most books, you project parts of your personality on the main characters and that’s what makes the story even more compelling. So, when you meet an avatar in the game, you can look out for tell-tale signs of who that person could really be - and chances are you are right.

Pro-tip: if you’re looking to make friends, there are certain things you can look out for to make your avatar more approachable: a smiling avatar will make people want to be friends and other traits, like an oval face, brown hair or a sweater, were also more likely to make other players want to be friends than black, short hair (not cool: I have near black hair…). Apparently black hair, short hair, a hat and sunglasses are all no-nos.


And the good news is: if you want to dissolve into the anonymity of the multi-player world without sharing glimpses of your personality – just look out for what kind of an avatar look you would choose first – and then choose the opposite!

Happy hunting,

Silja

GamerDating

© 2024 Gamer Dating LLC

  • Articles
  • Contact Us
  • Press
  • Privacy Policy
  • Terms of Service
  • Affiliates
  • The Mission
  • Support
  • FAQ

Begin my quest

User
Help GamerDating.com is a community of adults looking for real relationships. We ask that you use your real name.
Email
Help Your email is safe with us - we won't spam you.
Password
Help Please input a secure password, we recommend Uppercase, lowercase, numbers, symbols, and at least 8 characters but it's not a requirement — be secure
Password
Help You've got this. Verify your password ;).
Your gender
Your Gender
  • Female
  • Male
  • Agender
  • Androgynous
  • Two-spirit
  • Gender Fluid
  • Gender Nonconforming
  • Gender Questioning
  • Genderqueer
  • Intersex
  • Pangender
  • Trans Man
  • Trans Woman
  • Transmasculine
  • Tranfeminine
  • Bisexual
  • Other
Help Select the gender that you would say you identify with
Their gender
Their Gender
  • Female
  • Male
  • Agender
  • Androgynous
  • Two-spirit
  • Gender Fluid
  • Gender Nonconforming
  • Gender Questioning
  • Genderqueer
  • Intersex
  • Pangender
  • Trans Man
  • Trans Woman
  • Transmasculine
  • Tranfeminine
  • Bisexual
  • Other
Help Who are you looking for?
Help Choose your date of birth. Members must be over 18. Or in some states over 21

By registering, you understand and agree to the terms of service